Haven't made a lot of friends yet but it's fine. My roommate is some girl I've never met before till like 4 days ago and she and her friends seem pretty cool. I'm not a very talkative person (probably awkward af) and I try to be social but it just turns into a very awkward situation. If he or she never texts first, it's not necessarily a sign that there's something wrong with your relationship, according to Masini. There could just be outside forces at play. For example.